Annemie Magdaleen
Jewellery Designer at annemiemagdaleen.com
@annemiemagdaleen
I invested in working with Hira I sensed that Hira is a sensitive person. I could use some support with getting more organised, that was what my mind thought. But my heart, just wanted to connect, because when I read the description of ‘Embrace’, it resonated deeply with me. My time during our work together has made me change. I learned to be more gentle with myself, and I learned to let go of sabotaging perfectionism.
It is better to show up with what I already have, then to keep hiding, because it isn’t perfect yet. It is important to realise that I have been hiding and procrastinating my whole life, because of perfectionism. And it is because of Hira’s gentle embrace, that I was able to let go and to be kind to myself. I learned to see that it is not about following unwritten guidelines of how one is supposed to do things, but to discover inside myself what works for me and what doesn’t. Even the way that we had my tasks scheduled and organised is gentle, without too much of the ‘have to’ feeling. I can move freely and still get all the things done that are important to me.
There are no universal rules of how to grow your business, certainly not as a creative. There is no manual that fits all of us. And this is what I figured while working with Hira, she never pushed me in one direction. She created the space, where I could be myself and sense myself and take decisions and actions from that point. Handing practical tools on the side, but most important, giving me room to relax in myself. Now I understand why Hira calls this traject ‘Embrace’, I truly felt embraced during this three months. It was great to work with Hira for a longer time. I didn’t have the need to meet up just as often, the fact that we could catch up on how I was doing every second week, gave me an amazing supportive feeling. I wasn’t alone in my journey, someone was lovingly joining me and supporting me. And cheering with all the successes big and small. Handing me a mirror on how well I was doing and how much I have evolved in such a short time. I won over myself with Hira’s help. I still have a lot of use of the tools and the support I received during the coachings.
As a creative, the most important person in your ‘business’ is you. Anyone can teach you strategies ans push you in a structure and a set of guidelines. But that just doesn’t work. (been there done that) It is important to find someone that supports you and see you for who you are. Someone who waters your seeds so you can grow and bloom. And that can only be a person who is sensitive and creative herself. That’s why Hira is a great person to work with.